Where are you experiencing fear right now? What scares you most? Maybe it’s something that haunts you from your past. Maybe it’s the idea of a potential outcome in the future. Josh and Kit are exploring a new approach. Instead of trying to escape fear, numb fear or minimize fear – today, we’re going to face fear. You can do this. Facing your fear is a power move to pull...
Stopping the Shame Cycle
Shame is a powerful influencer. And if we let it get loud enough, it convinces us that we are walking report cards. Shame gives us a capital F saying our behavior is who we are. Let’s turn down the volume on shame. You may be struggling with your behavior but you are not your sin. Your identity is not wrapped in your performance alone. If that statement can’t find it’s way into your heart; listen...
When Spouses Have Different Sex Drives Part 2
You are a sexual creature, created by a Holy God. Your sex drive has an ebb and flow. You have unique factors that contribute to the rise and fall of your libido. There’s a peace and confidence in that awareness. If you’re married, remember the same holds true for your spouse – EXCEPT that their ebb and flow and drive and triggers may be completely different. It’s no wonder that 1 in...
When Spouses Have Different Sex Drives Part 1
If you’re married, you can attest to the fact that Holy Matrimony don’t necessarily mean holy harmony. Marriage involves the sometimes tough work of learning, adjusting, confronting, putting up with, and blessing your spouse’s differences. When those differences hit the bedroom, couples tend to avoid the necessary work. If that sounds uncomfortably familiar, you aren’t alone. In fact...
The Confusion with Infatuation
“My experience indicates that most people become infatuated or fall in love with others an average of six times in the course of a long marriage.” Six times – Does that make sense to you or does it offend you? There is a big difference between infatuation and being in love. This is the statement Gary Thomas used to share an honest blog post admitting his own attractions while offering...
Band of Brothers – Men Need Each Other
With no tools, no teams or projects, three men sit down on this episode to talk Friendship. Connection can typically be filed into a “Women Only” category. But, as you’ll hear from Josh, Matthew and Dan; men don’t just need but actually long for deep connection with each other. We hope you’ll listen to this honest conversation between men about men and come away with a better understating of this...
