At some point early in life, pornography was not a thought in your mind. You’d never seen it and it didn’t occupy any of your time. Things have changed. Now you can’t stop thinking about it even when you wish you could. If this describes you, then why not make this season of social distancing […]
What in Me Needs to Die?
I was brought up in a church tradition that placed an importance on Lent, and during this time, we were encouraged to “give up” something to allow us to identify with the suffering of Jesus as He made his journey to the cross. Usually, we chose to give up things we had been over-indulging in, […]
5 Things You Can Do For Your Spouse After Infidelity
The road to healing for a sexually addicted man or woman can be long and difficult. When that man or woman is married, they also have to consider the healing their spouse needs. If you’ve been unfaithful either through pornography use or in an extra-marital affair, here are five things you can do to help […]
Sacred Space
The current message trending is, “Do what you need to do in order to avoid pain.” The world we live in is confused about the meaning of feelings, the role of feelings, and who gets to feel what feelings. Since our capacity for sexual purity is so closely connected to our emotional health, this conversation […]
One Word
How are you doing maintaining the New Year’s resolutions you established in January? The fact that we’re in a new decade may have added some pressure to making those resolutions even better than ever. But, maybe just maybe, your resolutions are… not working. Personally, I’m not one for New Year’s resolutions. Instead, I like choosing […]
To Those Struggling with Sexual Sin: What You Need Most
If you’re struggling compulsively with an unwanted sexual behavior, you may have a difficult time receiving the thing you most need. Mike certainly did. I met with Mike a few months ago and listened as he talked about his love of God and his intense desire to share the truth of Jesus with a lost […]
