Let’s go beyond reading words about God’s kindness. If you are wrestling ongoing sexual sin, if you are battling shame, if you are facing past traumas; God is inviting you to experience His kindness. Right now, what if you could hear Jesus saying to you, “I’m right here and I love you.” (be sure to look in the Homework Section for more questions) Highlights God is near and He loves you. It’s hard...
Fantasy to Flesh Pt 2
We’re going deeper in Part 2. Paying attention to the symbols and story-lines in your sexual fantasies often point towards a treasure within you. Sound twisted? Look to the “Homework” section below for key questions to help you untwist your temptation from your truest desires. Let’s dive in. Highlights Your imagination is given to you by God as a creative force. When your brain stirs up a...
More than Same-Sex Attracted
If you’re a woman who loves Jesus and you find yourself attracted to other women, reconciling your “identity” may feel impossible. The world we live in reduces who we are to the smallest sliver of our sexuality. But there’s so much more to you than being a lesbian or straight or a Christian or not. Take some time with us to stop hiding or defining yourself. For now, set aside the...
Fantasy to Flesh Pt 1
Fantasy looks like the scene you work up in your head from time to time. It seems innocent enough. You may tell yourself the fantasy is just a fleeting thought. But as you add details, you add emotions. Soon enough, your sexual fantasy works itself from your brain to your body amping those thoughts to feelings. In this short series, we want to urge you to take fantasy seriously. This Part One can...
Don’t Fight Porn Alone
Something in your story made pornography enticing. You didn’t just stumble on it. Have you ever wondered what was happening in your life that made porn seem like a safe place to run? Decades of work in healing from unwanted sexual behaviors lead us to this episode. You are meant to do this work alone and here’s why. Highlights 5 Reasons You Think You CAN Heal on Your Own: Fear asks, “What happens...
Is a Woman Responsible for a Man’s Lust?
Women have been blamed for men’s lusts for a long time. But Is a Woman Responsible for a Man’s Lust? Both men and women struggle with lust. But both sexes do not experience responsibility for their lusts in the same way. What I mean is that when a man lusts, he may blame his actions on what a woman is wearing or doing. This has been promulgated by the culture at large, including, I’m...
