Regeneration Ministries
Becoming Whole
Thoughts on topics such as Identity, Sexuality, Pornography, LGBTQ & SSA, Parenting and so much more.
Pride is a tenacious, sneaky, and deadly thing. It can lurk even in places where we find ourselves deeply wounded or hurting. It can lurk even when we believe ourselves to be humble. Benjamin Franklin humorously suggested that if ever he were able to rid himself of pride, he’d surely end up being proud about …
In boxing, a one-two punch is a combination of two punches delivered quickly one after the other, especially a left jab followed by a right cross.[i] The enemy has a one-two punch he uses regularly against men and women seeking freedom from unwanted sexual behaviors. Like in boxing, when the enemy lands his one-two punch, it’s …
For those who wrestle with habitual unwanted behaviors, particularly sexual ones, could it be you need more confidence? Let’s talk about the One Sign You Don’t Believe Who You Really Are. Over the years, I have talked with countless men and women who are baffled as to why, despite the hatred they have for the …
Often when I speak or write about the sin of lust, someone protests, arguing that lust within marriage is a good thing. I don’t believe it is. At all. Here’s why: Husbands and wives are called to love each other. Lust, as I would define it, is using another person for one’s own selfish gratification. …
Years ago, a friend of mine from Colorado went backpacking with his new wife in early summer. They were buying some last-minute supplies and the guy at the store asked if they wanted to rent snowshoes, too. “Uh, no,” my friend thought to himself, “It’s summer. Why would I need snowshoes?” Turns out, that was …
When Katie first learned that her husband of ten years had been viewing porn, it rocked her world. She’d known he had struggled with pornography in college, but he had promised it was a thing of his past, and she had no reason to doubt him. Until she discovered porn on one of their devices. …
