The journey towards sexual integrity often involves unraveling the complexities of our desires and seeking a deeper understanding of their underlying messages. In a recent exploration of this topic, a discussion unfolded, shedding light on the profound connection between our sexual desires and the innate yearning for union with God. Let’s dive into the insights shared and unravel the deeper...
Navigating the Journey of Recovery Together
Communication is key in any relationship, but it becomes even more crucial in the context of recovery from sexual addiction and betrayal trauma. In this guide, we will explore the importance of healthy check-ins and effective communication in the journey toward healing and rebuilding trust in a marriage after betrayal. The Importance of Check-Ins in Recovery Effective communication in a...
Understanding Betrayal Trauma and Navigating Disclosure in Marriage
In the journey towards healing and restoration in marriage, it is essential to address the complex dynamics of betrayal trauma and the process of disclosure. Betrayal trauma arises when a spouse discovers the existence of sexual behavior, lies, or deceit in the marriage. This trauma can profoundly impact the betrayed spouse, leading to emotional distress and reshaping their perception of reality...
Navigating the Challenge of Sharing Unwanted Sexual Behavior with Your Spouse
Sexual Integrity Starts with Who You Are
Is sexual integrity something you aspire to? If so, find an old-fashioned clock. When does a clock most exhibit integrity? You might be tempted to think it’s when the clock is telling the correct time, but that’s not it. Even a stopped clock will tell the right time twice a day. Sexual Integrity Integrity is not first and foremost what you do, it is who you are. Integrity means oneness...
Be Curious About What You Feel
Too many people who struggle to overcome habitual pornography use believe that marriage will solve their problem. “Once I get married,” the reasoning goes, “I’ll have a God-given way to enjoy sex, so I won’t need porn anymore.” But in nearly every case, those who go into marriage hoping that an ongoing problem with pornography (or other unwanted sexual behaviors) will disappear once they’re...
