When someone is struggling with an ongoing habitual behavior, many of us can be quick to give advice. Ironically, this usually makes things worse. Here’s why… Advice is great when it’s given by a qualified person, at the right time,… Read More »When Advice and Accountability Don’t Mix
Every one of us is living in a story. The problem is that most of us don’t usually recognize the actual story we’re in. And if we want to walk in sexual integrity, we need to. Think about the movie… Read More »If You Want Sexual Integrity, You Need a Better Story
When was the last time you thought of your biological sex—your manhood or womanhood—as a gift? When I was in college, in the throes of my habitual unwanted sexual behaviors, I remember hearing a pastor teach that integrity means acting… Read More »Sexual Integrity Is Sexed Integrity
If you want sexual integrity, you’ve got to become more emotionally healthy. For many people who wrestle with habitual unwanted sexual behaviors, it can come as a surprise that the journey toward sexual integrity is one wrought with emotion. But… Read More »Sexual Integrity and Emotional Health
Is sexual integrity something you aspire to? If so, find an old-fashioned clock. When does a clock most exhibit integrity? You might be tempted to think it’s when the clock is telling the correct time, but that’s not it. Even… Read More »Sexual Integrity Starts with Who You Are
“I’ve been dating someone for a few months and really like them. When do I tell them about my sexual struggle?” When Do I Tell My Significant Other? We received an email from one of our podcast listeners asking when… Read More »When Do I Tell My Significant Other?