Years ago, a friend of mine from Colorado went backpacking with his new wife in early summer. They were buying some last-minute supplies and the guy at the store asked if they wanted to rent snowshoes, too. “Uh, no,” my friend thought to himself, “It’s summer. Why would I need snowshoes?” Turns out, that was a mistake. The salesman knew what they didn’t: there was an early summer storm coming. My...
Postures of Recovery
Recovery from unwanted sexual behavior is up to you. And only you can know how much of “you” is going into the work. It’s about postures of recovery. In this episode, Josh and Kit examine a few postures toward recovery and how to readjust for lasting impact. This important journey is about more than trying to quit a bad habit. True healing hinges on your posture. How vulnerable are...
Desire
Desire is one of those touchy subjects no one really wants to touch. But we’re going there. Depending on the way you were raised; you might consider desire to be mysterious or dirty or something to be quiet about. In this audio snippet from our latest video, Kit and Rebecca are putting the subject of desire front and center. That deep down longing is part of your special wiring and it is worth...
Pornography
Are you struggling with Porn? The addiction can feel like a giant, but you can learn to rise above it. Pornography Addiction is there hope? Yes there is! Understanding what you believe to be truth about who you are deep down is key to making real change. And you are worthy. God has a good, holy, beautiful design for sexuality. And it’s meant for you. Articles on Pornography See More on...
We Are All Searching For Meaning
We Are All Searching For Meaning. Right now, let’s take notice. For this next half hour together, let’s be aware of that need deep inside you. And this time, let’s promise to not look away but to be present and understanding because you are a person of great worth. Your habit of turning to pornography or hooking up is more than an unwanted sexual behavior. That pattern in your life is connected...
How to Suffer Well
Life with Jesus does not mean a life without suffering. So, how do we learn How to suffer well? Now, maybe that’s what you were taught or maybe you just assumed it to be true. Let’s face it, the typical American dream version of Christianity can paint a pain-free picture. But as you know, suffering is a reality. The world’s message about pain doesn’t set us up well either. We...