The journey towards sexual integrity often involves unraveling the complexities of our desires and seeking a deeper understanding of their underlying messages. In a recent exploration of this topic, a discussion unfolded, shedding light on the profound connection between our sexual desires and the innate yearning for union with God. Let’s dive into the insights shared and unravel the deeper...
Understanding Betrayal Trauma and Navigating Disclosure in Marriage
In the journey towards healing and restoration in marriage, it is essential to address the complex dynamics of betrayal trauma and the process of disclosure. Betrayal trauma arises when a spouse discovers the existence of sexual behavior, lies, or deceit in the marriage. This trauma can profoundly impact the betrayed spouse, leading to emotional distress and reshaping their perception of reality...
Let Christ Smash Your Ceilings
So many people have ceilings on how far they can go in life. Some ceilings come from what people say is or isn’t possible as it pertains to change and transformation. In our culture many believe there is a ceiling with those who wrestle with same sex attraction or men in general, that they will always struggle with lust and have no possibility of change. On the other side there are those that...
Overcoming Loneliness
H.A.L.T is a powerful tool used in recovery. Each letter represents a different risk state that can lead you to your drug of choice (H Hungry, A Angry, L Lonely, T Tired). In this episode of Sacred by Design, we’re exploring the risk state of Loneliness. Out of the 4, loneliness feels the most risky and vulnerable to talk about. So, we’re talking about it. Highlights: In your journey towards...
Married or Single, Marriage Won’t Heal You
Have you ever thought you won’t need or want pornography anymore once you get married? Many men and women have. The idea seems logical: If I go to pornography because I want sex, then once I’m married and having regular sex with my spouse, it will be easier to leave pornography behind. But most of the time, tying the knot doesn’t fix the problem at all. Sometimes, it even makes it worse...
Sometimes You Gotta Fight
I want to talk today about a little bit of a dichotomy that a lot of people experience in their journey towards sexual integrity. If you’ve listened to this podcast for any length of time, or been involved in our coaching, groups, or events, I hope that you’ve picked up on the reality that we seek to bring the love and grace of God into all things. We believe that real life change...