If you struggle with lust, consider this for a moment: Can you explain why you are drawn to the form of a woman or the form of a man? Beyond the specifics of what part of the body titillates you sexually, have you ever considered why it titillates you? Why does your body stir at the sight of another’s body? Is it a learned response because your body knows the pleasure that awaits if you engage in...
Desert Intimacy
It has been said that in sexual addiction we exchange intimacy for intensity. One of our deepest and most fundamental needs is intimacy, but we settle for the intensity of a sexual thrill, a rush, a pseudo connect, a dalliance wearing a mask of intimacy. We have gone to bathe in the desert sand, deluding ourselves that it is the beach. Here again, we have sought to satisfy a legitimate need in...
Drawn to Intimacy and Identity
Can you explain why you are drawn to the form of a woman or the form of a man? Beyond the specifics of what aspect of the body attracts you, have you ever considered why? At the core, the stirring is because sex, gender, and sexuality are profoundly linked to intimacy and identity. They are profoundly linked to the true Goodness for which we’re made. Sexual imagery has power because...
Untwisting the Message of Sexual Desire
The journey towards sexual integrity often involves unraveling the complexities of our desires and seeking a deeper understanding of their underlying messages. In a recent exploration of this topic, a discussion unfolded, shedding light on the profound connection between our sexual desires and the innate yearning for union with God. Let’s dive into the insights shared and unravel the deeper...
Oasis
This is your oasis Start overcoming porn, masturbation, and other unwanted sexual behaviors, by rewriting how you respond to desire, temptation, mess-ups, and shame. Enroll Now → If you’re here, reading this page, It’s time to move beyond this shame-filled cycle that has held you back for months and years. WE SEE YOU Daily battling temptation with tools you feel aren’t working. We’ve been...
Unwanted Sexual Behaviors
Unwanted Sexual Behaviors ON THIS PAGE What is the Definition of Lust? Women Watch Porn Too Gay Christian or Same-Sex Attracted? Scripture that points to Unwanted Sexual Behaviors Recommended Books on Unwanted Sexual Behaviors Recommended Videos on Unwanted Sexual Behaviors All Articles on Unwanted Sexual Behaviors This ever updated page pulls together our most recent (and archival) library of...