Listen on: When you find yourself lacking desire for your spouse, I would invite you to look somewhere else. I want to invite you to look at how you feel about yourself. How good I feel about yourself is usually more of the underlying reason why you lack desire for your spouse, then your spouse’s. It really has to do with you. So let me unpack that a little bit. When you look in the...
Your Imagination Is Better Than Porn
Listen on: In this podcast, we are talking about your imagination. Your Imagination Is Better Than Porn. We who are seeking sexual integrity know the problem of how our mind can get us into trouble with sexual thoughts, sexual fantasies, and sexual imaginings that lead us down a path. It can start with just a small thought that seems to kind of drift into our brain. Then something inside grabs a...
Parenting Sexuality
Parenting Sexuality On this page Guiding Your Kids Through a Pornographic World Why Parents Are better Than The Internet 7 Things Not to Do When Your Child’s Exposed to Porn Scripture that points to Parenting Sexuality Recommended Books on Parenting Sexuality Recommended Videos on Parenting Sexuality All Articles on Parenting Sexuality This page pulls together articles, podcasts, and videos about...
Married or Single, Marriage Won’t Heal You
Have you ever thought you won’t need or want pornography anymore once you get married? Many men and women have. The idea seems logical: If I go to pornography because I want sex, then once I’m married and having regular sex with my spouse, it will be easier to leave pornography behind. But most of the time, tying the knot doesn’t fix the problem at all. Sometimes, it even makes it worse...
Sexuality and Singleness
We hope by now you’ve come to expect the unexpected from Sacred by Design. Sexuality and Singleness is what we are talking about today! That being said, many of you might assume the life of a single, Christian woman means numbing and suppressing desires. Being single doesn’t just mean not having sex. There is so much more. Are you willing to give God the space, as you listen to this podcast, to...
What’s Sexual Integrity?
When it comes to sex, most Christians have been taught the right actions but few have been taught to align their thoughts and desires with those actions. Even more, the primary lesson of God’s beautiful design for sexuality is almost never included. This teaching begins during childhood. What was the sex talk like for you? What’s Sexual Integrity? Were you inspired by the beauty of...